Leadership, Self-Care & Confidence

Team Building With a Little Help from the Herd

Just last month, on a rainy morning, the barn buzzed with a new kind of energy as Mane Stream welcomed students from Passaic County Technical-Vocational School for our first-ever Team Building Field Trip!! A unique twist on our traditional field trip model, and one we hope to offer more of in the future.

What made this visit different? A collaboration between two Occupational Therapists and two Adaptive Riding Instructors who co-designed a two-hour experience focused on emotional regulation, leadership, and self-awareness, all with the horses as their guides.

Rain may have kept the group in the barn and indoor arena, but the cozy quarters worked in the students’ favor. The close setting heightened the group’s body awareness and made every interaction intentional. The day began with grooming, a sensory-rich activity that encouraged students to notice how the horses responded to different types of touch. Were the horses relaxed? Did they move closer, lean in, or give a gentle sigh? Students were encouraged to look for subtle cues and build trust through observation and care.

From there, the learning deepened. Occupational Therapist Emily Bucher, OTR/L, explained:

“We worked with the students to learn about their own emotions and think about how to best set up their day for success,” said Emily Bucher, OTR/L. “We promoted self-care skills, including mental health practices like meditation and visualization. Using the horses, we created moments that fostered leadership, confidence, groundedness, and empowerment.”

Later, the group moved into the indoor arena for a live demonstration with Cody and Joe. As the ponies entered a visually overwhelming space filled with cones, barrels, and jumps, their hesitation was clear, they scanned the ring, wide-eyed, ears flicking, and unsure. Cody even gave a few snorts as he was led toward unfamiliar objects. Students were asked to interpret the horses' body language and then reflect on their own reactions in unfamiliar settings.

 “This activity gave us a great way to talk about body language,” explained Jen Dermody, Director of Program Services and Advanced PATH Intl. Certified Instructor. “Emily helped the students connect what they observed in the horses to how they interpret and respond to new environments in their own lives.”

The students reflected on these interactions and explored questions like: What do I do when I enter an unfamiliar space? How do I prepare myself to stay grounded? The horses became mirrors, helping the students gain insights into themselves.

The learning continued with a hands-on team obstacle challenge. Volunteer Leroy Hunninghake shared, “Watching 4 groups of students build a combined obstacle course and then lead a horse through it was incredible. And to make matters even more challenging, two leaders worked together to guide the horse, with the entire group cheering them on. All of the students were totally engaged, learned a lot about horses, and were able to use both verbal and non-verbal communication between each other and their horses throughout the exercise.”

As the challenge wrapped up, a little friendly competition added a perfect finish to the day. In a surprise speed round, the group watched as Minnie, the sturdy Norwegian Fjord, raced through the course, beating the much-larger Don by more than 15 seconds, a result that brought the barn to life with cheers and laughter.

This hands-on approach helped the students see themselves in a new light, capable, self-aware, and resilient. And for the Mane Stream team, it was a deeply rewarding moment to see the potential of this new kind of field trip model come to life.

As we continue to expand how we serve schools and community groups, this team-building experience has set the bar high. One thing is certain: horses have a powerful way of connecting people to themselves and each other, and this day proved just how far that connection can go. It was a stepping stone toward self-awareness, trust, and empowerment. We can’t wait to host more programs like this in the future.

Interested in scheduling a Field Trip?
Contact jen@manestreamnj.org to learn what the options are for your trip!

It's National Safety Month!

June is National Safety Month, and it's the perfect time to remind everyone of a few very important safety tips while volunteering at the barn! These four messages come directly from our Volunteer Coordinator, Emily De Jong. Your safety, and the safety of our horses, is our top priority. If you ever have questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to Emily at volunteer@manestreamnj.org. And remember, if you're ever unsure about something during your shift, your Head Barn Volunteer or any member of your volunteer team is always there to help. Let’s work together to keep our barn a safe and welcoming place for all!

Get a refresher on all the volunteer tips, tricks, training videos and more with a visit to the…
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What’s a DAF?

And How Can It Help Mane Stream?

A Donor-Advised Fund (DAF) is like a charitable savings account that allows donors to make a tax-deductible gift with ease. It’s a smart and flexible way to support causes close to your heart, especially organizations providing vital services like adaptive riding, therapy (OT, SLP), mental health counseling, and inclusive summer camp programming.

Whether you’ve supported Mane Stream in the past or are considering a new way to give, a DAF allows you to:

  • Support us throughout the year, even during times of economic uncertainty.

  • Recommend gifts when you’re ready, while still receiving immediate tax benefits.

  • Maximize your philanthropic impact without the administrative hassle.

If you already have a DAF, recommending a grant is easy and impactful. Simply search for Mane Stream Inc. (EIN: 22-2260786) through your fund’s online portal.

Not sure where to start? Reach out to your financial advisor or visit platforms like DAF Direct or Fidelity Charitable to learn more.

Your gift can help Mane Stream grow stronger, one stride at a time.

If you have any additional questions, please contact Trish Hegeman at trish@manestreamnj,org.

Veterans Benefit from Time on the Farm

This Memorial Day weekend, we salute our veterans. Horses can be an important part of mental health sessions for everyone, especially veterans and those who have experienced major trauma.  

If you know someone who could benefit from therapy sessions with a mental health professional, please get in touch with us at 908-439-9636. Limited sessions available on Thursday afternoons.

Join the 'Rescued Hearts' Sneak Peek

You’re invited to a special virtual event this Saturday, May 10th, as part of the national Seen Through Horses campaign—our annual fundraising campaign during May, Mental Health Awareness Month, to raise awareness and critical funds for mental health and personal growth programs involving horses.

This 90-minute virtual gathering will feature:

A 20-minute sneak peek of the film Rescued Hearts that dives into the unique bond between horses and humans. Through a blend of personal stories and expert insight, this video explores how horses help people navigate trauma, grief, anxiety, and more—when words alone often fall short.

A live panel discussion with Horses for Mental Health and the filmmakers of Rescued Hearts to learn more about the video and the larger movement to expand mental health support through horses.

Saturday, May 10th at 6 PM (EST)
Via Zoom -
REGISTER TO JOIN

*Can’t attend but want to support Mane Stream in raising funds for Mental Health Programming. CLICK HERE

Mental Health Sessions Available

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May 8th is National Children's Mental Health Awareness Day, and at Mane Stream, we’re proud to offer a powerful, nature-based alternative to traditional therapy settings.

Led by Dr. Lori Rockmore, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience, our mental health services blend evidence-based cognitive behavioral therapy with the healing presence of horses. From managing anxiety, ADHD, and OCD to navigating life stressors or trauma, Dr. Rockmore partners with the Mane Stream herd to create a safe, supportive space for children and teens to grow emotionally and mentally, right here in the barn and paddocks.

Sessions are non-mounted and may include grooming, observing behavior, and hands-on connection with the horses, all tailored to help clients feel seen, safe, and supported. We currently have Thursday Afternoon time slots available!!

Interested in learning more about how therapy at Mane Stream helps kids heal? Give us a call at 908-439-9636.

From Tacos to Triumph...

HOW yOU MADE FIESTA AT THE FARM A SUCCESS

Last weekend, our community came together under the big tent for a night that was vibrant, filled with purpose, and just plain fun. Fiesta at the Farm kicked off with an incredible show of spirit with guests dressed the part in festive colors, embroidered tops, and even a matador jacket! Colorful umbrellas transformed the tent into a fiesta dreamscape, thanks to the hardworking event committee and amazing volunteers who helped set the scene.

Volunteers kept the kids occupied with activities so that parents could relax and enjoy the evening. This meant that kids had just as much fun as the adults with games like Pin the Tail on Minnie (the banner, not the horse!), and the Peso Toss, plus they spent time painting our patient ponies, Minnie and Cody. But the biggest hit of the night? The epic battle with two impressively strong piñatas—a handcrafted Mane Stream logo and a bottle-shaped Teremana piñata (for adults) that finally burst open after a hilarious tag-team effort by Jen and Kelly.

And while the sky gave us a quick rain shower, it also gifted us one of those signature Mane Stream rainbows that arced beautifully over the barn and pastures, an unforgettable moment that reminded us why we gather: to celebrate and support a place that fosters independence and connection.

This year, the heart of the evening was getting to know the Mane Stream participants themselves. Many guests spoke directly with participants and their families, while others scanned QR codes that linked to personal stories shared online. These powerful moments reminded everyone why they came: to help raise vital funds for our programs and for the daily care of the incredible horses that make our mission possible.

And a big shout out to The Food Architects’ flavorful Mexican-themed menu (shrimp with mango salsa was the fan favorite!). Guests sipped a variety of margaritas courtesy of Teremana Tequila, and mocktail lovers enjoyed our Orange Fiesta Fizz and Zippy Lemonade—both youth- and adult-approved.

Midway through the evening, guests took a break to catch the Kentucky Derby on the big screen and were blown away by a surprise performance by mentalist Jesse Dameron, whose card tricks and uncanny predictions left jaws on the floor. Minds = blown!

The Kentucky Derby broadcast brought everyone together for a thrilling pause in the evening, and guests gathered to cheer for their favorites. Meanwhile, our year-old tractor and utility vehicle were displayed proudly as a thank you to last year’s donors whose generosity during the 2024 paddle raise made those much-needed purchases possible.

We ended the night on a high note as our 50/50 raffle winner, Kimmie Turiansky, generously donated her entire winnings back to Mane Stream! That incredible gesture, along with ticket sales, silent auction, and donations throughout the night, raised essential funds that will directly support our therapy programs, adaptive riding, summer camp, and horse care. It’s not too late to show your support - Click Here!

From the tiniest piñata whack to the biggest community impact, Fiesta at the Farm was a night to remember. Thank you to everyone who joined, supported, and celebrated. We’re already dreaming about next year—stay tuned for the theme and date, because you won’t want to miss it!

thank you event sponsors!

Don Julio - $3,500
Red Tail Farm

Patron - $1,000
The Cavalero Family
The Durden Family
The Greifeld Family
Karen & Steve Kaufhold
The Sudler Family Foundation
The Turiansky Family

EVENT VOLUNTEERS
Neeve Canniffe, Tess Coffey, Catherine Costa, Debi DeLorenzo, Juliet Dermody, Lily Fosburgh, Nancy Grossweiler, Leroy Hunninghake, Amy Mahoney, Karen Zavaglia

EVENT COMMITTEE MEMBERS
Tina Corcoran, Laura Edelson, Nancy Grossweiler, Karen Kaufhold, Jordan McLellan, Kerry Scholz, Michele Stevens, Laurie Willard, Dara Woitkowski, Mary Ellen Yen

Special thanks to Wolfy Nicolaides who volunteered his photography services, providing these great shots for your enjoyment.

Volunteers -- Just Our Cup of Tea!

Volunteer Appreciation Week - A Perfect Blend of Kindness

At Mane Stream, we truly believe that volunteers are the perfect blend of kindness, commitment, and heart, and last week, we took a moment to sip, savor, and say thank you during our TEA-rific Volunteer Appreciation Week.

With mugs raised and plates full of cookies, scones, and sweet treats, all week long volunteers enjoyed a cozy tea- and coffee-themed celebration to honor those who pour their energy into every grooming session, every therapy session, every riding lesson, and every joyful moment in the barn. Whether they're tacking up horses, leading, sidewalking, supporting therapy sessions, or helping our participants build social skills, our volunteers do it all, and always with a smile.

As our Volunteer Coordinator shared, “All your hard work & dedication creates the perfect blend of independence & support to allow our participants to thrive!” We couldn’t brew this magic without you, and we’re so grateful you’re part of the Mane Stream family.

Here’s to the incredible individuals who keep our programs steeping with success—you're simply TEA-rific!

Corporate Days of Service Make All the Difference!

Last week, two incredible corporate volunteer groups rolled up their sleeves and gave their time, energy, and talent to help Mane Stream shine for the FIESTA at the FARM.

Teva Pharmaceuticals brought a powerhouse team that tackled an impressive list of projects in just one day. In addition to assisting with event prep, they took on garden maintenance, scraped and painted trim, sorted and moved our Shoes for Shoes donations, and even began sprucing up our iconic horse statue by the road. Their hardworking, can-do attitude helped us cross off major to-dos just in time for the event.

Liberty Mutual Insurance followed with their own small but mighty team, diving into both event preparation and farm improvements. They painted colorful umbrellas and a chalkboard, moved the bars and event equipment to the tent site, reset bricks at the front entrance, finished painting our horse statue, and packed up a truck full of 105 bags of donated shoes.

Thanks to these dedicated corporate teams, Mane Stream was more than ready to welcome guests to our Cinco de Mayo-inspired event, FIESTA at the FARM. We are incredibly grateful to Teva Pharmaceuticals and Liberty Mutual Insurance for their support, enthusiasm, and commitment to giving back. Your efforts helped us create a meaningful and memorable event, and your impact will last well beyond the weekend!

Interested in coming to Mane Stream for a Corporate Day of Service? Contact Emily De Jong at volunteer@manestreamnj.org

Shoes for Shoes Campaign is a wrap!

After more than 13 years of collecting used shoes, our Shoes for Shoes campaign has officially come to a close. Just last week, we filled half a box truck with 105 bags, totaling an incredible 5,250 shoes! These shoes will now begin their journey around the world, helping individuals build micro-businesses by reselling them within their communities.

We are incredibly grateful to everyone who contributed over the years. While we once received thousands of shoes annually, the growing number of donation options has made it increasingly difficult for us to collect the 100 bags required in a timely manner. For that reason, we’ve decided it’s time to retire the campaign.

Thank you again to all who faithfully supported this effort, helping us raise funds to offset our farrier costs and keep our herd happy and healthy. You’ve made a lasting impact—one step at a time.